it is simply being your best, being all that you can be daily, building on your life?what it is that you really want? what are you good at ? what is it that you like doing?' daily be just that, a do-er, it's all about you doing, the things you love. that is the key, to a good life, with the people who love you! do this every day, of your life, a day and a half for 30 days. never ever give up, - that is the secret to life. you live the best life that you can, every day is a do-over day, and change is a good opportunity. - try new things - for 21 days, - if you like it keep doing it, if it works for you, if not stop doing it, do something a little different, and mind your own business. this works every day of your life. let your family and friends and the people you meet to deal with their own stuff. you just leave the room, walk away. that it, it is done.